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Vanessa Shea Lail

April 7, 1985 — September 18, 2024

Vanessa Shea Lail, age 39, born on Easter Sunday, April 7, 1985, in Caldwell County, left this world unexpectedly on Wednesday, September 18, 2024, in Catawba County. Shea was an extraordinary woman whose nurturing spirit and passion for life expressed itself in every endeavor she pursued. She owned and operated her own lawn care business, where her green thumb and knowledge of plants made her a beloved figure in her community, earning her the affectionate title of the "Plant Lady." Shea was on the cusp of realizing another dream as she prepared to open a greenhouse, showcasing her commitment to cultivating beauty and life. She had an unparalleled ability to get anything to grow, a testament to the love and dedication she poured not only into her plants but into the lives of those around her. Throughout her life, Shea found joy in simple pleasures—exploring the outdoors, hitting the beach, and kayaking were among her favorite pastimes

Shea’s greatest treasure, however, was her son, Ayden. He was her pride and joy, and the love she had for him knew no bounds. She cherished every moment spent with him and instilled in him the values of hard work and kindness, ensuring that his life would be enriched with the same love she embodied. Her family and friends were her heart; she deeply valued the connections she shared with them, dedicating time to create memories that would last lifetimes.

Shea was surrounded by a supportive and loving family throughout her life. She leaves behind her beloved son, Ayden Harrington, parents, Sheliah Wurth (Brian), father, Wade “Gill” Lail Jr.; her brother Christopher Allen Lail, two cherished sisters, Ariel Smith and Destiny Wurth. Shea's legacy also extends to her numerous nieces, nephews, and extended family members, all of whom will dearly miss her warmth and light.

Shea was preceded in death by her maternal grandparents, Gwinn and Carolyn Lail, her paternal grandparents, Wade and Mary Lail, and her uncle, Jerry Lail. 

As family and friends gather to honor her life, the visitation will take place on Sunday, September 22, 2024, from 2:00 pm to 3:00 pm, followed by a funeral service at 3:00 pm at Dudley Shoals Baptist Church in Granite Falls. Burial will follow in the church cemetery. Rev. Roger Parker will officiate.

The family will accept flowers.

In this time of remembrance, we celebrate Shea’s spirit, her fierce devotion to her family, her talent as a caregiver of both people and plants, and the indelible mark she has left on all our hearts.

Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Alexander Funeral and Cremation Service.

Condolences may be sent to www.alexfuneralservice.com

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Sunday, September 22, 2024

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Sunday, September 22, 2024

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